As we know, There are known knowns. There are things we know we know. We also know There are known unknowns. That is to say We know there are some things We do not know. But there are also unknown unknowns, The ones we don't know We don't know. ~D. Rumsfeld

Friday, September 11, 2009

Life -and, death

While standing at my mezah this morning I got a phone call. That has never happened to me before...

It was a sister in law who told me about the serious health situation a brother in law (not her husband, but another brother in law) was suffering from.. His days are counted :-( I wrote about him in this diary before. He was the one who let me feel I am not alone here and I am his family even though the one who made us family stepped out of the family "thing". Although he didn't help me practically very much his support mentally was invaluable.... He was also the one we, the ex and me, was offering to live in his apartment when I just came to Israel so, I have very, very fond memories of him.

I am SO sad. I am crying and crying and I wish there was someone who could share this pain with me, but.... the one I separated from I heard wished his brother to be in hell.... How could I have been so wrong when I was young when falling in love with him? Was I that blind??

I have a million photos I took today which I will play underneath but the first thing I would like associated with this day is the clip of a song that mellows out my heart and makes me feel not ashamed of my pain, Didou Nana:



about being young, about being mindless. about falling prey to the wolves amongst us and about the ones I dragged with me in my feelings and hold dear to me forever, when traveling the road of life ....

for the captions one can have a look at my flickr account - my head isn't into it right now. there were so many impressions, they're all at my flickr account:


11-9-2009-white-chest-kingfisher2
11-9-2009-white-chest-kingfisher
11-9-2009-whatz-on-ur-heart-baby
11-9-2009-was-waiting-4-u6
11-9-2009-was-waiting-4-u5
11-9-2009-was-waiting-4-u4
11-9-2009-sucking-in-sweetness
11-9-2009-still-confusing-you
11-9-2009-so-scared2
11-9-2009-someone-i-envy
11-9-2009-solo-flight
11-9-2009-silver-wings
11-9-2009-ok-im-off-then
11-9-2009-nature-and-camaouflage-skills
11-9-2009-mr-egret-looking-at-him-differently
11-9-2009-im-walking-on-sunshine
11-9-2009-hoping-this-is-not-israir
11-9-2009-hey-im-talking-2-u
11-9-2009-hey-im-talking-2-u2
11-9-2009-corona-car
11-9-2009-happy-ms-cat
11-9-2009-happy-ms-cat
11-9-2009-freedom-comes-with-a-price
11-9-2009-military-skies
11-9-2009-so-where-do-u-go-2-my-lovely-when-ur-alone-in-ur-room
11-9-2009-leftovers-bee2
11-9-2009-baby-crab3

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